Sejal at random

Okay, so I have again ghosted this blog for a while, but you know, just got so caught up into everything else that it just became an “on the back of my mind” thought. It just wasn't coming to the front which reminds me of many other things which didn't come to the front either. Like I said, I was too occupied. But for this blog, a really kind person decided to remind me that, hey, you have forgotten about the blog, and that they're waiting for a new post. But now, as I am writing this, I reckon what were other things that I didn't do when I was too caught up with the things at the front. And also the fact that I never really cared what was important and what was not I just went on doing what came to the front. Now that I think of it, what if the thoughts and things waiting for me at the back of my mind were the ones I should have focused on? You know, I get it live in the moment, you just have one life but yeah, that matters, right? I just have one life, an...

                                Being a woman in this world... Before I start, I want to clear this out: I am not here to cry for equality. I also want to mention that I neither support nor criticize any ideology in particular. This blog post is about my own thoughts on being a woman in this world. It feels really powerful to be a woman. I can bring a whole new human into this world. Not just that, I am also considered a goddess in many places. Many women before me fought, and today I am as empowered as I could be. I can go to school, college, get a job, work, and achieve my dreams. Do you know where the problem started? When women had to fight to get what men already had and deserved too. I am a goddess, and I know that. I am capable of many things, and I know that too. I am powerful, and I know that as well. But am I safe? I will never be able to say that until the day men no longer exist arou...

This blog is big news to me or let me put it this way, this has been something that has consumed a lot of my mind. Well , if it wasn't for this question I maybe would have written many more poems but you know I am also like everybody else or maybe I am like this because of everybody else. If I don't do what they think I should do, I without any reason become the runt one. It's like I am not even the smallest or the weakest I just am not doing what others want me to and even if I be the rebel which right now I am kind of. How far am I going to go? is what everybody thinks. It is become quite far a narrative that if you don't think (actually wrong word it should be stress and overthink) about your career you are unambitious , not so goal oriented, lost in life and the chances of you ending up nowhere is more than the chances of the sun being in the sky during daytime. Look , I understand it's a competitive world with a ever growing population, inflation ...

 This wasn't a planned post for this  month there was something else something more happy that I wanted to post. But this one I feel is important to me so I want to share it with you guys. Before, I move any forward I would like to state clearly that I am not a mental health professional and whatever I talk about here is basically going to be about my own experiences and thoughts about it. This is not the general anxiety post that is going to tell you it's okay and glamourize anxiety. See, We as humans are all anxious to some extent about something. There might not even be one person who can say that I have never been anxious about anything .So, it's a universal feeling but not a universal disorder. It is increasing at an alarming rate but it is not universal as a disorder. Once you start to explain people about it they just think you are worrying about things just worrying nothing else. They tell you to stop thinking and it will be okay but what nobody understa...

So this one is going to be the first post of my blog and I thought a lot about what should it be about . after thinking for a while and having a tiny fight with my own mind I came to the conclusion that it should be about the current center of attraction of my life . Something that I have always been fond of but lately I've been obsessed with it. Well , without any further ado let me tell you that this post is going to be about plants. Yes , you are right the green things around us. All throughout this post you will find me boasting about them as if they are mine but in real sense they are everybody's best  friends. Since school or maybe even at home as kids we have been taught how plants are selfless and how we should thank them. Also,  in my culture we have even been worshipping trees for centuries and decades. ( if you are from the west you are missing out on that part of value education). So, keeping my values and culture in mind I have always had immense res...